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How sad it is! I had hoped that in my lifetime I would never be forced to experience the life of terrene or third world chaos. Unfortunately I have seen, experienced, and witnessed this political, legal, and economical cancer myself. I watch it grow and develop devouring all of its victims at an extraordinary rate. In times like this I continue to believe that we have the ability, confidence, power, resourcefulness, and economics to stop this process of destruction. Instead, we all look around for someone else to do it. We think, feel, act or say “We are to busy; I have my own problems to deal with; it’s not my problem; sorry, hope things get better for you; I know how you feel; you think your life is bad try living mine, I wish I could help but I don’t have the time or the money, that’s the Politian’s fault or responsibility”. Sound familure? I worry about our children and what life will be like for them in the next 10, 20 or even 30 years if this trend continues. I find it odd that at the same time this mind set grows in this country we have our own sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, cousins, neighbors and friends fighting half way around the world for complete strangers. These fine men and women are willing to give everything they have including their lives for someone they have not encountered and will probably never meet. They do it out of pride for their country and obedience to their leaders. They hope and believe that through their GIVING that we all may experience a better way of life, freedoms to pursue happiness, ability to choose your life’s path, and hope for the future. Who said that what we do individually can’t make a difference or that it does not affect, matter, or contribute to everyone’s life and the development of our communities? The answer is; no one ever said that, at least not someone of sane mind and body. What happened to ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country? Now the saying goes; have it your way, all about me, be number one at any cost or any price, and so on etc, etc. We don’t usually care or get involved until we find our self in need or feeling the paralyzing embarrassment that takes place when you have been victimized by someone who users you to gain whatever sick minded pleasures and comforts they feel they deserve. I have asked for help on many different levels and I usually here nothing back. Generally I am just plain ignored (the easy way out). The few returned messages I get are rude, degrading, belittling and/or judgmental. Have people really become that hardened and angry that deep down inside they like to see people hurting and without? I guess this is part of our human morbid culture. Kind of like when we drive by a car accident to look and see if anyone died or how bad the accident really is, or when we sit in the comfort of our homes and watch on the big screen the car chase down the city streets just waiting for the big accident or maybe the police will shoot the assailants. We thrive on others failure and gossip. You say no way? I say look around you next time you shop and look at all the gossip magazines, watch your local news and see if they share good positive stories or do they share stories that create fear, anxiety, promote political agendas, or just plain controversy. Don’t get me wrong, I want people to have nice things and comforts in life, I think most us do, what I am saying is this; how hard is it to give up a cup of coffee or soda per day? Are we willing to make one small sacrifice to give to another to make this world a better place to live for all of us? I have lost nearly everything I have, but, I have my family and I am still happy. In fact, I gave my lunch this past week away to other people that did not have any food at all. You should have seen the smile on their face and the gratitude that they expressed. I know, I know, you are saying, yah but, I have given to people on the street corner before and they don’t change and don’t even smile or say thank you. I say you are right and be careful who you help. There are a lot of scams in this world and even more so today. Scams are growing at an alarming rate. If you have not been witness or victim of one I employ you to learn all you can about fraud or I.D theft. There are programs available and information to help protect you. Now you can even buy insurance programs to protect you if you are unfortunate enough to experience this horrible pathetic crime. If you feel compiled to help someone you can start by making contact with them. Learn a little about them, set guide lines for the person(s) you intend to help so that you fell you are really making a difference in their life and not just wasting your money. Think of it more like a government grant where you ask them their needs and they tell you followed by; how they got there, what they have learned, how do they fix it and keep from making the same mistake again. Do what you can to make a difference not matter how small or how big it might be. Every kind deed can and will make a difference (this I can promise). Collectively we can change people lives. For those of you that do help already I say thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. For those of you in need I pray for you and feel your struggle, please hang in there I know times are really tough and painful, but they will get better. For everyone else, please do whatever you can. It we make you feel good knowing that you helped others and changed their life. You might even find that it also changes yours. Remember that it’s always humbling to know you might be the one asking for help tomorrow. The intention of this letter is to expand your mind and provoke new thoughts about what we have and what can we give back. It is intended to make you stop and think of ways you can help or what you would do if you needed help. I too have learned and have found fault in my own giving nature; I have been shown from our current situation and trials that I am guilty of not doing enough. I have been convicted to step up and help even more than we have in the past. Thank you for your time. Please pass this on if you feel like this might reach and change someone’s life. Hope, peace and blessings to all!

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How sad it is! I had hoped that in my lifetime I would never be forced to experience the life of terrene or third world chaos. Unfortunately I have seen, experienced, and witnessed this political, legal, and economical cancer myself. I watch it grow and develop devouring all of its victims at an extraordinary rate. In times like this I continue to believe that we have the ability, confidence, power, resourcefulness, and economics to stop this process of destruction. Instead, we all look around for someone else to do it. We think, feel, act or say “We are to busy; I have my own problems to deal with; it’s not my problem; sorry, hope things get better for you; I know how you feel; you think your life is bad try living mine, I wish I could help but I don’t have the time or the money, that’s the Politian’s fault or responsibility”. Sound familure? I worry about our children and what life will be like for them in the next 10, 20 or even 30 years if this trend continues. I find it odd that at the same time this mind set grows in this country we have our own sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, cousins, neighbors and friends fighting half way around the world for complete strangers. These fine men and women are willing to give everything they have including their lives for someone they have not encountered and will probably never meet. They do it out of pride for their country and obedience to their leaders. They hope and believe that through their GIVING that we all may experience a better way of life, freedoms to pursue happiness, ability to choose your life’s path, and hope for the future. Who said that what we do individually can’t make a difference or that it does not affect, matter, or contribute to everyone’s life and the development of our communities? The answer is; no one ever said that, at least not someone of sane mind and body. What happened to ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country? Now the saying goes; have it your way, all about me, be number one at any cost or any price, and so on etc, etc. We don’t usually care or get involved until we find our self in need or feeling the paralyzing embarrassment that takes place when you have been victimized by someone who users you to gain whatever sick minded pleasures and comforts they feel they deserve. I have asked for help on many different levels and I usually here nothing back. Generally I am just plain ignored (the easy way out). The few returned messages I get are rude, degrading, belittling and/or judgmental. Have people really become that hardened and angry that deep down inside they like to see people hurting and without? I guess this is part of our human morbid culture. Kind of like when we drive by a car accident to look and see if anyone died or how bad the accident really is, or when we sit in the comfort of our homes and watch on the big screen the car chase down the city streets just waiting for the big accident or maybe the police will shoot the assailants. We thrive on others failure and gossip. You say no way? I say look around you next time you shop and look at all the gossip magazines, watch your local news and see if they share good positive stories or do they share stories that create fear, anxiety, promote political agendas, or just plain controversy. Don’t get me wrong, I want people to have nice things and comforts in life, I think most us do, what I am saying is this; how hard is it to give up a cup of coffee or soda per day? Are we willing to make one small sacrifice to give to another to make this world a better place to live for all of us? I have lost nearly everything I have, but, I have my family and I am still happy. In fact, I gave my lunch this past week away to other people that did not have any food at all. You should have seen the smile on their face and the gratitude that they expressed. I know, I know, you are saying, yah but, I have given to people on the street corner before and they don’t change and don’t even smile or say thank you. I say you are right and be careful who you help. There are a lot of scams in this world and even more so today. Scams are growing at an alarming rate. If you have not been witness or victim of one I employ you to learn all you can about fraud or I.D theft. There are programs available and information to help protect you. Now you can even buy insurance programs to protect you if you are unfortunate enough to experience this horrible pathetic crime. If you feel compiled to help someone you can start by making contact with them. Learn a little about them, set guide lines for the person(s) you intend to help so that you fell you are really making a difference in their life and not just wasting your money. Think of it more like a government grant where you ask them their needs and they tell you followed by; how they got there, what they have learned, how do they fix it and keep from making the same mistake again. Do what you can to make a difference not matter how small or how big it might be. Every kind deed can and will make a difference (this I can promise). Collectively we can change people lives. For those of you that do help already I say thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. For those of you in need I pray for you and feel your struggle, please hang in there I know times are really tough and painful, but they will get better. For everyone else, please do whatever you can. It we make you feel good knowing that you helped others and changed their life. You might even find that it also changes yours. Remember that it’s always humbling to know you might be the one asking for help tomorrow. The intention of this letter is to expand your mind and provoke new thoughts about what we have and what can we give back. It is intended to make you stop and think of ways you can help or what you would do if you needed help. I too have learned and have found fault in my own giving nature; I have been shown from our current situation and trials that I am guilty of not doing enough. I have been convicted to step up and help even more than we have in the past. Thank you for your time. Please pass this on if you feel like this might reach and change someone’s life. Hope, peace and blessings to all!

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Hello to those that have replied to my aidpage. thank you very much for the comments , advice, and ideas.

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Has this program worked for anyone in the past? I hop I a not waisting my time again with a dead end program. My familly does not have the time.

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I don't know if in today's world there are still people that are willing to help others that are in need. I understand that trust is always an issue and knowing who, when, and where to help someone can be very difficult. If somewhere in your heart you find that you would like to help our family we would be forever greatful to you kindness. We can use anything you may have to offer to help us from just good advise, listing to our problem with a kind response, or pointing us in a direction that we may get the help we need. Anything and everything helps. thanks for your time and response. Giordano Family

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IDENTITY THEFT VICTUM

FROM:
Scott & Jennifer Giordano
Helendale, CA. 92342
Giordano-luv@verizon.net


SUBJECT:   HELP PLEASE!          


To Whom It May Concern:

If I may take a few minutes of your time I would like to share with you where my family currently stands with our finances, including our mortgage, and how we got to this point. On May of 2006 I left my previous 12 year job with County Fire Department for the following three reasons: (1) my position with County was being eliminated as of July 1st 2006. (2) Because I was losing my job with County I tried to be positive, aggressive, and proactive in finding a new job before I was let go. I Began testing in Colorado in October of 2005 and was doing very well. I continued testing for the next nine months truly believing I would be successful in getting a job in Colorado in particular with the Denver City Fire Department.  I was very successful with my testing efforts and the job was pending on passing a final background. The Start/hire date was estimated to be around mid July giving us enough time to pack move and get established in our rental home before I started my new job. (3) My wife was pregnant with our second child and was put on mandatory bed rest by her doctor until further notice due to complications. This happened in the first of May and I resigned 5 days later with County Fire to be with my wife and my two year old daughter.

It’s about mid May of 2006; I am home packing the house to move, taking care of my wife and my daughter. I continued making trips to Colorado for final testing and to look for our new home and a rental. We as a family make a trip around the end of May and put money down on a new Pulte house in Broomfield Colorado and we find a rental to live in until our house is built. My parents came along with us because they are also selling their house and moving with us. Our current home in Helendale has not sold yet and the market has dropped significantly from what it was one year ago. We decided that if it doesn’t sale before we move that we could afford to rent it out and we would be able to make up the difference with the money I would be making on my new job.

By June we are ready to move and are looking forward to this exciting new start with our lives in Colorado. Around mid June I receive a letter from Denver City stating that I did not pass the final Background and was disqualified for employment. I called to find out what happened and they said that they could not divulge any information but said that I could hire my own private investigator to find out what caused the problem. I hire an investigator and find out that we have been victims of identity theft for many years and that would automatically disqualify me from any government/public service job. I was confused and angry without any idea what had happened or how to fix this problem.

It is now July of 2006 I am now without a job unable to move and trying to figure out what to do for a job to support my family and how do I accomplish fixing this identity theft problem. I spend the next 8 months trying to fixing the identity theft problem spending over 5, 000.00 dollars of our money (not to mention the 75,000 per year lost from losing employment) making hundreds of phone calls to agencies such as San Bernardino County Sheriff, FBI, FTC, IRS, Social Security, AIG, Creditors, Banks, and many others. I have filed two dozen reports to meet the needs of every agency requesting documentation, I have also spend 8 to 10 hours a day looking for work or working small jobs like washing cars, yard work, small construction jobs etc. I have turned in over thirty (30) applications but I am unable to find work because my fifteen years of experience, diploma, and formal training are all based on the Fire Service. The catch 22 problem is I can’t test for fire departments until the identity theft problem is solved or I would run into the same problem I had with Denver City. I continue to hear the same thing from every employer, why are you here and are you going to go back to the fire service? Once I explained the problem they seemed compassionate about my problem but were unable or unwilling to hire me. Over the months we get further and further behind financially. Finally by mid January of 2007 I find a new job. The job is with Barstow Community College and is only part time at this point but I am extremely happy to be working again. Even though I am working I continue looking for full time work in the fire service.

The past several years I have been in a head on car accident with a drunk driver, lost a child, lost my grandmother on Christmas day, lost a best friend to cancer, lost both cars that we owned, my identity, a career, my dreams, ambitions, hope, peace of mind and joy. I have also sacrificed many personnel items like golf clubs, Thomas Kinkaid art collection, football card collection, collector coins passed down by family, and many other valuable items that we had to garage sale or sold on EBay to make money just so we could survive. Our credit has been severely damaged and our faith challenged. In addition to all of that I have suffered from several illnesses requiring medications and a lot of doctor visits. We experienced corrupt real-estate when we tried to refinance our home to get money to help us and instead we lost 30,000 dollars and gained nothing, that problem is currently under investigation with the DRE. We also gave up our dream to move to Colorado, a new house, a great new job doing what I love, and having the ability to help my parents who are retired and on a fixed income and were also counting on moving. My wife and I are hanging on by a thread and are tired, stressed, frustrated, deeply depressed, angry, and confused. We really don’t want to lose the one thing we have left, our home.

I totally and completely understand that this is not your problem and that you are not responsible for helping us in any way, however, I hope that you can find it in your hearts to help my family anyway possible. This is our problem and I take my commitment that I made to you very serious and we continue to do all wee can to make things right again. We really don’t want to lose our house. I refuse to walk away without trying to do everything in my power first. I don’t want a short sale or foreclosure, this does nothing for you or me to solve the problem and in the end we all lose. I am confident that there is an answer to this problem and that it can be solved. Again, I understand you don’t owe us anything and you have every right to take our home, I just ask that if there is any way possible that you or anyone else may be aware of to help us help our selves get back on track, please let me know. Please help us if you can.

As stated in this letter I am now working and my wife starts working the first of April. We are confident that we can get back on our feet and are slowly getting there. Please understand that we have lost over 100,000 dollars this past year to year and half, but we are not going to give up we are resilient, confident, humble and hard working and we are committed to make this unfortunate situation right again. We will try to do ALL we can to make this work and pray you can help us. I thank you so much for your time and consideration in regards to this matter.

Note:
 The following documentation can be provided to you for verification if you request it:

1. Police report
2. FTC report #
3. Investigation report
4. Denver City denial letter
5. Lawyer letter from working on credit issues
6. Letter from parents also explaining events
7. Letter from my wife giving her perspective of events
8. Records of financial support from our church
9. Witness of events letters from friends and family
10. Affidavit From Identity Theft 911 (from homeowner insurance)


Thanks again for your consideration, time, and help

Sincerely,

Scott Giordano
       And
     Family

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FROM:
Scott & Jennifer Giordano
Helendale, CA. 92342
Giordano-luv@verizon.net


SUBJECT:   HELP PLEASE !


To Whom It May Concern:

If I may take a few minutes of your time I would like to share with you where my family currently stands with our finances, including our mortgage, and how we got to this point. On May of 2006 I left my previous 12 year job with County Fire Department for the following three reasons: (1) my position with County was being eliminated as of July 1st 2006. (2) Because I was losing my job with County I tried to be positive, aggressive, and proactive in finding a new job before I was let go. I Began testing in Colorado in October of 2005 and was doing very well. I continued testing for the next nine months truly believing I would be successful in getting a job in Colorado in particular with the Denver City Fire Department.  I was very successful with my testing efforts and the job was pending on passing a final background. The Start/hire date was estimated to be around mid July giving us enough time to pack move and get established in our rental home before I started my new job. (3) My wife was pregnant with our second child and was put on mandatory bed rest by her doctor until further notice due to complications. This happened in the first of May and I resigned 5 days later with County Fire to be with my wife and my two year old daughter.

It’s about mid May of 2006; I am home packing the house to move, taking care of my wife and my daughter. I continued making trips to Colorado for final testing and to look for our new home and a rental. We as a family make a trip around the end of May and put money down on a new Pulte house in Broomfield Colorado and we find a rental to live in until our house is built. My parents came along with us because they are also selling their house and moving with us. Our current home in Helendale has not sold yet and the market has dropped significantly from what it was one year ago. We decided that if it doesn’t sale before we move that we could afford to rent it out and we would be able to make up the difference with the money I would be making on my new job.

By June we are ready to move and are looking forward to this exciting new start with our lives in Colorado. Around mid June I receive a letter from Denver City stating that I did not pass the final Background and was disqualified for employment. I called to find out what happened and they said that they could not divulge any information but said that I could hire my own private investigator to find out what caused the problem. I hire an investigator and find out that we have been victims of identity theft for many years and that would automatically disqualify me from any government/public service job. I was confused and angry without any idea what had happened or how to fix this problem.

It is now July of 2006 I am now without a job unable to move and trying to figure out what to do for a job to support my family and how do I accomplish fixing this identity theft problem. I spend the next 8 months trying to fixing the identity theft problem spending over 5, 000.00 dollars of our money (not to mention the 75,000 per year lost from losing employment) making hundreds of phone calls to agencies such as San Bernardino County Sheriff, FBI, FTC, IRS, Social Security, AIG, Creditors, Banks, and many others. I have filed two dozen reports to meet the needs of every agency requesting documentation, I have also spend 8 to 10 hours a day looking for work or working small jobs like washing cars, yard work, small construction jobs etc. I have turned in over thirty (30) applications but I am unable to find work because my fifteen years of experience, diploma, and formal training are all based on the Fire Service. The catch 22 problem is I can’t test for fire departments until the identity theft problem is solved or I would run into the same problem I had with Denver City. I continue to hear the same thing from every employer, why are you here and are you going to go back to the fire service? Once I explained the problem they seemed compassionate about my problem but were unable or unwilling to hire me. Over the months we get further and further behind financially. Finally by mid January of 2007 I find a new job. The job is with Barstow Community College and is only part time at this point but I am extremely happy to be working again. Even though I am working I continue looking for full time work in the fire service.

The past several years I have been in a head on car accident with a drunk driver, lost a child, lost my grandmother on Christmas day, lost a best friend to cancer, lost both cars that we owned, my identity, a career, my dreams, ambitions, hope, peace of mind and joy. I have also sacrificed many personnel items like golf clubs, Thomas Kinkaid art collection, football card collection, collector coins passed down by family, and many other valuable items that we had to garage sale or sold on EBay to make money just so we could survive. Our credit has been severely damaged and our faith challenged. In addition to all of that I have suffered from several illnesses requiring medications and a lot of doctor visits. We experienced corrupt real-estate when we tried to refinance our home to get money to help us and instead we lost 30,000 dollars and gained nothing, that problem is currently under investigation with the DRE. We also gave up our dream to move to Colorado, a new house, a great new job doing what I love, and having the ability to help my parents who are retired and on a fixed income and were also counting on moving. My wife and I are hanging on by a thread and are tired, stressed, frustrated, deeply depressed, angry, and confused. We really don’t want to lose the one thing we have left, our home.

I totally and completely understand that this is not your problem and that you are not responsible for helping us in any way, however, I hope that you can find it in your hearts to help my family anyway possible. This is our problem and I take my commitment that I made to you very serious and we continue to do all wee can to make things right again. We really don’t want to lose our house. I refuse to walk away without trying to do everything in my power first. I don’t want a short sale or foreclosure, this does nothing for you or me to solve the problem and in the end we all lose. I am confident that there is an answer to this problem and that it can be solved. Again, I understand you don’t owe us anything and you have every right to take our home, I just ask that if there is any way possible that you or anyone else may be aware of to help us help our selves get back on track, please let me know. Please help us if you can.

As stated in this letter I am now working part time and my wife starts working the first of April. We are confident that we can get back on our feet and are slowly getting there. Please understand that we have lost over 100,000 dollars this past year to year and half, but we are not going to give up we are resilient, confident, humble and hard working and we are committed to make this unfortunate situation right again. We will try to do ALL we can to make this work and pray you can help us. I thank you so much for your time and consideration in regards to this matter.

Note:
 The following documentation can be provided to you for verification if you request it:

1. Police report
2. FTC report #
3. Investigation report
4. Denver City denial letter
5. Lawyer letter from working on credit issues
6. Letter from parents also explaining events
7. Letter from my wife giving her perspective of events
8. Records of financial support from our church
9. Witness of events letters from friends and family
10. Affidavit From Identity Theft 911 (from homeowner insurance)


Thanks again for your consideration, time, and help

Sincerely,

Scott Giordano
       And
     Family

I am a husband and a father and I am asking anyone that can help in ANYWAY posible to please send me an email so that I can get my family back on our feet and we can move on with our life again. This has been devastating to my intire family and we don't no where else wee can turn. Thank you for your time.

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